I’m Getting Married Today
Bronson (right) and I are off to a special location of the California clerk’s office in West Hollywood to get our marriage license today, the government’s recognition of our commitment ceremony which occurred on April 21, 2007.
My friend Melissa called last night to tell me to be prepared for the demonstrators she saw outside the Beverly Hills Courthouse. Luckily, I’m used to them by now — after having come out at age 21 to an “ultra religious” Utah family, and starting a national magazine about gay relationships — I’m used to dealing with those voices, which become [yawn] more unintelligible as the years pass.
But today is not about them. Today is about reflection and affirmation of our love and our relationship. It’s about celebration, because today, 39 long years after the Stonewall Riots, we finally have the same legal privileges and protections of every other Californian.
We are equal.
June 18th, 2008 at 2:15 am
Congrats… again!
June 18th, 2008 at 2:30 am
It won’t matter that 10,000 doors might be slammed in your face, Sam, because when door number 10,001 flies open, revealing pathways of jade and gardens of love, with flowers dancing, fountains sparkling, friends blushing, moonbeams beaming, and abundance abounding, you’ll completely forget about all the other doors.
Happens every day,
The Universe
June 18th, 2008 at 2:34 am
I’m so sorry this didn’t coincide with what I will always view “your REAL wedding day” but I’m still so happy for you guys. MmmmmWUH –
June 18th, 2008 at 2:49 am
Hi Darlings,
You know how very proud I am of you both, and though you were very much in love a year ago, your union has escalated a thousand time since then. You deserve all of the wonderful opportunities, friends, good health and trinkets of gold and silver that come your way. Congratulations, again!
I love you
June 18th, 2008 at 3:00 am
Congratulations, Sam.
Your fellow Judge Memorial refugee, Michael Murphy
PS – I got engaged last Friday.
what a life!
June 18th, 2008 at 3:02 am
G-r-r-reat news! Congratulations to you both!
June 18th, 2008 at 3:05 am
Love to you both. xxxooo
June 18th, 2008 at 3:20 am
Your marriage was real from the beginning. It’s only now the state government is playing catch-up. Congratulations on the renewal of your vows!
June 18th, 2008 at 6:52 am
Oodles of love to you two! And I have no doubt that the obvious love, genuine joy, and commitment you have in each other will never land you in the halls of Hill Street.
In a time when our government regularly lets us down, today is a day of judical sunshine for all.
Love to you and the Mr! xxoo, Claire
June 18th, 2008 at 6:52 am
Congratulations and my very best wishes!
Brian
June 18th, 2008 at 6:53 am
CONGRATULATIONS! PEACE, LOVE, AND JOY!
W. EVERETT HAUCK, III
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June 18th, 2008 at 6:53 am
CONGRATS!!!!
June 18th, 2008 at 1:38 pm
ongratulations! (again!) What a fabulous day for all of us yesterday!
I will be letting out an even bigger girly scream than I did yesterday when watching CNN when (!) California voters defeat the amendment the nutty extremist Christians have put on your ballot.
Hugs
Brian
June 18th, 2008 at 1:42 pm
CONGRATULATIONS! May your union last as long as the two darling 80+ year olds that were highlighted on the news.
Love you both.
June 18th, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Congrats !……we send love, admiration & support!
XO
R & J
June 18th, 2008 at 4:52 pm
congrats…does this mean another gift?
love edgey in canada
June 18th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
Congrats Sam.
June 18th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
My lovely’s,
You two continue to be an inspiration to us ALL as such a strong example of what a marriage should be. So happy for you on your big day (again).
Love you, Rachel
June 18th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
Congratulations. Not only is it a legal confirmation of your union, but I’m sure it must be a great feeling to know that you have achieved what so many of us will probably never have the ability to do. Rob and I are so happy for you.
(Did you wear your tuxes to the ceremony?…ha ha)
Michael
June 18th, 2008 at 8:58 pm
Hey Sam!
Congrats to you and Bronson! I’ve had a lot of fun reading both of your blogs!
Rene Rodriguez
June 18th, 2008 at 10:32 pm
“Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.” – Amy Bloom
You and Bronson are two souls joined together through love. No judge or magistrate could ever take that away. Your relationship reaffirms my belief that when love is true, nothing will stand in its way. I wish you every happiness.
June 18th, 2008 at 10:45 pm
Thanks Michael, but I’m not sure I understand when you say “what so many of us will probably never have the ability to do.” — You realize you can come to California and legally marry, right?
June 19th, 2008 at 1:04 am
Dear Sam,
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!! You must be so happy.
I am thrilled for you both.
LOL,
Ilona
June 19th, 2008 at 1:07 am
Sam – Congrats to Bronson and you!
This Thursday or another Thursday soon…when your schedule permits…I look forward to welcoming Bronson, all of your friends and you to celebrate at FLOW, a weekly cocktail and dinner event at Mark’s Restaurant on La Cienega.
Hope to see you soon.
Raynard
June 19th, 2008 at 1:07 am
CONGRATULATIONS! It’s a glorious day for us all!
xo,
Joe
June 19th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
I am so thrilled to see all of the positive comments from friends! I was overcome to have spoken to you both right after the ceremony. I love you two so much and am so proud of you…you know. Sam and Bronson Page are men to look up to; I do. All my love past time,
Mom
June 28th, 2008 at 9:25 pm
I think it is worth reminding those who may not be supportive that in law, “marriage” (small “m”) is just a legal term for a certain set of legal rights and privileges granted to two people by the state. Social Security benefits, rights of survivorship, hospital visitation, the ability to change one’s name or own joint property—these are civil rights protected by the government which should be equally available to all of its citizens.
Folks who object to same sex marriage are confusing “marriage” (the legal term, above) with “Marriage” (big “m”) which they associate with religious beliefs. But remember. the U.S.A. was founded on the principle of separation of church and state.
The U.S. Constitution protects the rights of ALL its citizens, not just a certain subset of those citizens (i.e., heterosexuals). By law, the U.S. will eventually extend the rights afforded to some of its citizens to all of its citizens.
Not “black” rights. Not “straight” rights. Not “gay” rights.
Human rights.